For most guys, sexual wellness and wellbeing is extremely important. That means that even although it is a first date, and not traditionally a time to hook up, you can guarantee that sex is going to be on a man’s mind. After all, if he was interested enough in a woman to pursue her and ask her out on a date, then he’s probably interested in taking things to a physical level. So, if you’re a man, the big question on your mind is probably how to make sure that the night ends in a fun, sexy experience rather than a hug and a quick peck on the doorstep?
Fortunately, there are some things you could try to make sure that things turn physical as quickly as possible. First of all, when you’re heading out on your date, invite her to come over to your place and say that you will both go out from there. She doesn’t even have to actually come into your house (although it’s great if she does). It simply means that at the end of the night she will have to come back to your place because that’s where her car is. From that point of view, it will be very easy to invite her inside for one last drink, as you will both be there anyway.
Another top tip is to swoop in early. During most first dates, women are weighing up the big question of ‘should I or shouldn’t I kiss him?’ If you swoop in early with a (good) kiss, then it takes the pressure off and lets the woman know that you are interested in her physically.
Another important factor is not to make sure that you end up sliding into the friend zone. If you have ever taken a great woman home and then sat on the couch not quite sure how to make your move, then this is aimed at you. Be decisive and confident – it should be a natural progression and not a shift in the mood of the date. Try playfully putting your arm around her shoulders and see how she reacts.
