It’s In the Stars: Give Your Guy the Best Sex for His Sign

While communication is key to sexual health and wellness, sometimes its nice when you surprise your partner with something he likes – and he didn’t even have to ask for it. According to astrologist Kiki T, author of The Celestial Sexpot’s Handbook, your partner’s star sign may influence the kind of moves he’s into, so why not try out Kiki T’s suggestions for your partner’s sign, and surprise him with the best sex he never knew he wanted!

 

1. Aries: ‘Aries are known to be into fast, aggressive, and rough sex,’ says Kiki T. ‘Try a challenging rear entry position like “bootyful view.” It allows for deeper penetration, and he’ll be in control. Have him sit up on the bed so his legs are extended horizontally. Turn around and straddle him with your back facing him, then extend your legs back so they are behind him, relaxing your torso onto the bed between his feet.’

 

2. Taurus: ‘The Taurus man is into sensual, slow sex,’ Kiki T asserts. ‘Try missionary. He’ll be able to control the speed, and show his cariñoso side at the same time.’

 

3. Gemini: Kiki T comments, ‘We like to call these guys the master of the quickie. Try a position like standing up facing each other while he presses you again a wall.’

 

4. Cancer: ‘Cancers are indecisive and can have split personalities,’ Kiki T explains. ‘They’re either sensual or rough. Try girl on top so that you can take charge in case he decides to constantly switch it up on you.’

 

5. Leo: Kiki T notes, ‘Leos are very romantic and will take the extra mile to make things comfy for you. Think nice satin sheets and candles…Try a spooning position. It gives plenty of opportunity for him to get touchy-feely, since he’s el romantico.’

 

6. Virgo: ‘Virgos like to keep it really clean and they are usually the “givers,”’ Kiki T details. ‘Lie on your back, with your legs in the air forming a V-shape—this will give him the chance show off his, um, talents.’

 

7. Libra: Kiki T enthuses, ‘Libras are just straight on good at everything. He’s going to shine in any position, so try this advanced one: have him pick you up, wrap your legs around his waist, and trust us, he’ll take it from there.’

 

8. Scorpio: ‘How Scorpions have sex is pretty much how they communicate best with their lovers (i.e. the guy who solves all your arguments in bed,)’ says Kiki T. ‘Try a face to face position. Start off in doggy style, then rotate on your knees so you are facing each other. Looking into his eye is part of the sexual communication that’s intensely sexy to a Scorpio.’

 

9. Sagittarius: Kiki T points out, ‘These are the most spontaneous of the bunch. So if you’re into public sex, you’ve met your match. Try a standing up position where he enters you from behind while he holds one of your legs up, slightly bent at the knee. For that extra hot public sex-ish feel, tell him to press you up against the window for the thrill of possibly getting caught.’

 

10. Capricorn: ‘Capricorns are into S&M,’ Kiki T outlines. ‘Try doggy style, but keep your face down on a pillow. The hottest thing for him is to be 100% in control, and this position allows that. Just beware of possible spanking and dirty talking…in which you should probably lay down the law and what you’re not into before you do the deed.’

 

11. Aquarius: ‘These are the hombres that are into sex toys and props,’ asserts Kiki T. ‘While you’re on top of him, grab your vibrator and rub it on your clitoris. It gives you extra stimulation and it’s a maximum turn on for him.’

 

12. Pisces: Kiki T concludes, ‘Pisces are great at reading body language, so sex is almost always amazing since he knows exactly what you want and how you want it. They’re also really into role playing. Ride him reverse cowgirl—and for once, throw in the role playing so this position is finally really true to its name.’

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Doctor’s Orders: Why You Need to Have Great Sex More Often

There’s no denying it; we like sex. It’s good for your sexual health – not to mention your overall wellbeing – to have sex or masturbate on a regular basis, and most of us are all-too willing to oblige our wellness in this way. By having sex often, you can boost your immune system, enhance your fertility, stave off depression and even lengthen your life span. But how satisfied are you with the sex you’re having, and how can you increase that sense of satisfaction? Let’s look at how you can have more sex – and more satisfying sex.

 

1. Sex with yourself: Some people make the mistake of thinking that masturbation means you desire your partner less, but this simply isn’t true. In fact, flying solo on occasion can help you understand how your body responds to different types of touch, which is information that you can pass on to your partner, and make sex with him or her all the better for it. There’s no right or wrong way to masturbate, nor is there any rule as to how often you should or shouldn’t do it. Plus, there’s something quite sexy about having sex alone, together. Mutual masturbation can be very intimate, and give your partner new ideas about how to touch you in a way you’d like.

 

2. Feeling sexier: Your thoughts are a right nuisance in the bedroom, often getting in the way of having a good time. If you don’t like your body, you can get distracted by hiding your wobbly bits or worrying about turning off your partner, which will only make sex worse for both of you. Regular exercise can help you to shed your negative body and boost your sex life, but not just in the way you think. While exercising can help to tone your body, it also gives you better stamina and circulation, both of which translate to better sex. Good orgasms rely on blood flow to the genitals, and more stamina means you can go all night. Plus, exercise releases feel-good hormones, meaning you’ll feel better about yourself when the clothes come off. If the exercise you choose is yoga, you get extra points for improved flexibility!

 

3. Play: What comes to mind when you think about role-playing and sex games? Maybe you’d like to don a costume and try some sort of sexy secretary scenario, or maybe you want to try out a blindfold or handcuffs. Some people want something as simple as pretending to be strangers and flirting with your partner during a night out. Whatever you’re into, be as creative as you like and make sure that both of you are comfortable. The aim of role-playing is to spice up your experience and loosen your inhibitions. This is especially helpful if you have been in a monogamous relationship for a long time, as it gives you the chance to see a side of your partner you’ve never seen before.

 

4. Work on those muscles: If you want to strengthen your heart, do cardio; if you want to build your bones, do resistance training. If you want better sex, do Kegel exercises. Not only do Kegel exercises relieve urinary incontinence, but they also enhance your orgasms (and for men they may also enhance an erection). While you shouldn’t practice Kegel exercises while relieving your bladder, you’ll know you’re working the correct muscles if you can stop (or slow down) and start your urine stream. Contract these muscles and hold this for five to ten seconds, and then release them for the same amount of time. Repeat this five times. Take five minutes out of your day, two to three times a day, and practise your Kegel exercises for better, more satisfying sex.

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