Whether you’re relatively new to the game or you’ve mastered the Kama Sutra, we have some simple sex tricks worth remembering. So much of sexual wellness advice is overrated (food in the bedroom? That will never end well) but what about the most underrated sex tips and tricks? They may sound simple, and even a little vanilla, but these tips – courtesy of sexual health expert Sarah Jordan – could lead to the best sex of your life!
1. Do it Quick and Dirty:Jordan asserts, ‘Who says hard and fast sex can’t be intimate and romantic? The fact that you want each other so bad you’re willing to rip clothes right off, buttons be damned, is surely a sign of your sexual devotion?! Whenever the mood takes you skip the foreplay and try loads of different positions one after the other until you reach a dizzying height. Be spontaneous, fast and dirty…the adrenaline will take you over the edge.’
2. Find the Hidden Erogenous Zones: According to Jordan, ‘A quick scalp massage is an easy way to send shivers down his spine (and yours). Gentle kisses to your bare collar bones, the back of your knees and gentle tickles across your toes will send electric signals across your entire body.’
3. Give Him an Erotic Massage: ‘A sensual massage is one way to get his blood pumping during long, slow (and very sexy) foreplay,’ says Jordan. ‘Amazingly, giving your partner a massage after sex can increase his readiness for round two and prepare you for an endless stream of orgasms.’
4. Snog:Jordan explains, ‘Not only does this simple passionate act bring you closer together but it can also release massive amounts of feel-good chemicals in your brain, like dopamine and serotonin. Your lips are your most sensitive erogenous zone, so make the most of them.’
5. Give Him an Amazing Hand Job: ‘Shake up your hand job skills (pun intended) by trying out the two handed waterfall technique on your lucky boy,’ Jordan instructs. ‘Take your right hand and lightly cup the top of his penis in your palm. Twist your palm slightly as you move your hand down, stroking from the top to the base of his penis. When you reach the bottom, release him and bring your left hand up and do the same. Make sure you are only using one hand at a time, but start to build up the pace slowly so it becomes one fluid movement. Change the firmness and pressure of your grasp and speed to bring him to the edge and back again.’
6. Do a Seductive Striptease: Jordan advises, ‘Don’t start wildly dancing out of your underwear, it’s time to channel Dita Von Teese instead. Slowly take off each item, maintain eye contact and either stalk out of the room before you’ve taken off your knickers (towards the bedroom) or allow him to do it…he’ll be on cloud nine before he’s even touched you.’
7. Hold Hands During Sex: ‘Intertwine your fingers together when you’re going at it for a massive jolt of intimacy,’ recommends Jordan. ‘The same can be said for wrapping your legs around each other and pulling his head into your chest. The closer your bodies get, the more intense the whole experience will feel.’
8. Touch Yourself: Jordan points out, ‘He’s not a mind reader and he’s not born with an inherent ability to pleasure you with oral sex. You might need to teach him a few of your favourite moves until he’s an expert. What better way to do this than by touching yourself? He’ll get a kick out of watching you and then pick up a few tricks, like speed, pressure and angle – especially if you grab his hand for a little “join me” action.’
