Spice Up Your Sex Life With These Intimate Sex Moves

If your sex life has hit a bit of a rut, then there is a lot of merit in trying some new moves in the bedroom. Not only will trying new things boost your sexual wellness and wellbeing, but the experience of both working together on increasing your mutual pleasure will bring new intimacy and closeness to your relationship – hopefully with a few mind-blowing orgasms along the way.

 

When it comes to bringing a couple together, nothing beats a steamy romp in the bedroom. This will naturally translate into intimacy in all other areas of your life and make your relationship stronger than ever.

 

If you don’t know where to get started, why not try standing up sex in the shower? To do this, face your partner and get him to hold you up, as you wrap one leg around his hip and he enters you. This position makes hitting the G Spot inevitable, increasing the pleasure for you. The fact that he will have to have his arms around you the entire time also makes it feel very close, bonded and imitate. The hot water of the shower also stimulates extra nerve endings and makes it a very sensual experience.

 

If you like the idea of being face to face the entire time, but standing up is too tricky, why not try lying down face to face on the bed, lying on your sides? Being face to face means you can make eye contact the whole time, and stay in a full body embrace throughout sex, too. Wrap your legs around his waist and then he will be able to enter you, whilst you pull his body closer with your legs and feet.

 

Another alternative for face to face is to sit on his lap, facing him and have him enter you. This has the added bonus of improving clitoral stimulation and makes him feel like he is getting and extra sexy lap dance.

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How to Get the Intimacy Back Into Your Relationship

Intimacy is vitally important in a relationship, and is an integral part of your sexual wellness and wellbeing. Intimacy means different things to different people, however, and it does not necessarily mean having lots of sex.

 

Intimacy is more about deep committed – a relationship based on trust, honesty, self-disclosure, appreciation, respect, togetherness and interdependence. Men and women go about this in different ways, though, with women preferring a ‘face to face’ approach. This means that when women talk to men, they like to draw closer, look into one another’s eyes (what is called an ‘anchoring gaze’) and talk about deep, intimate details of their lives, such as their hopes and their worries. This is probably rooted in ancient times, where ancestral women would have spent their days looking into the eyes of their infant children, and soothing them by talking.

 

Men, on the other hand, tend to regard intimacy as either playing or working side by side, rather than face to face. They may discuss troubles with their love lives or a bad week at work perhaps, but it is far more rare for them to discuss their darkest fears and their secret dreams. When they talk, they often speak in a jokey way, hiding their true feelings behind humour. Men also rarely look deeply into one another’s eyes. Again, this probably harks back to historic times when ancestral males would be more likely to gather in groups, hunting prey together. They stayed side by side with their friends, and only faced enemies.

 

For this reason, if you want to be intimate with a man, do things with him side by side, rather than making him feel threatened with a direct gaze. At the same time, men are more likely to find ‘debating’ an intimate activity, while women thing that ‘organising a neighbourhood party together’ would be one of the most intimate things they could imagine.

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