An orgasm is a product of a sexually healthy lifestyle and sexual health is derived from positive sexual education.
‘Orga’ is a Greek word, which means explosion. Orgasm is derived from the word ‘orga’. Orgasm is a feeling, like a burst of pleasure, bliss, emotional and physical release. Studies have shown that confusion about orgasm is among both men and women. The wide variety of intensity, location and stimulus that contribute to and create orgasm plays a big part of the mystery that many women experience in identifying what an orgasm feels like. Women with orgasm show no bodily response, while others show classic response like vaginal contractions and heart racing.
Orgasm is a collective silence and if affects relationships and well being. Studies conducted in 30 countries around the world with over 27,000 participants reveal orgasmic dysfunction, which is the norm and not an exception. Two thirds of women rarely experience orgasm and the remaining one third have not experienced orgasm. Orgasmic dysfunction is not labeled to women alone. Equal number of men also suffer from a range of issues that hinder their ability to experience orgasm.
Orgasm is the human expression of life force. The more orgasm one has, he/she is likely to have more in the future. Learning about one’s own sexual response and developing orgasmic potential will bring both immediate gratification and long-term satisfaction. As with any skill based human motor function, all bodies come equipped with the tools for orgasm, yet without the proper education and opportunity to practice, many people never successfully achieve the synergy of mind, body and spirit to release this very unique and revelatory experience. It is a quest worthy or our time and attention.
Orgasm is a coveted human experience that makes orgasm so elusive and it cannot be forced. Even many methods of cajoling seem to backfire. Desperation and orgasm are strange bedfellows. Here we only need to unleash our imagination for a moment and it is clear how much sexual behavior lives in this odd coupling- faking, purchasing, role playing, submitting, dominating, what we will not do for an orgasm is somewhat astounding.
Having an orgasm starts with feeling aroused. No arousal, no orgasm. Arousal is a visceral experience and bodies are built for motion. Nowhere is this more useful than in sexual exploration. Although this may seem like stating the obvious, it is not a small percentage of people who tense up and stop moving around in their sexual activity. Arousal begins in the brain, specifically the limbic area of the brain where sense of smell intersects with emotional process, memory store and sexuality. Arousal is expressed through our breathing. Longevity and Orgasm frequency go side by side. Recent studies have confirmed the link between longevity and orgasm frequency. Having regular orgasms will extend your life and provide the basis for more long lasting relationships. People who enjoy a regular, satisfying sex life.
