When your children leave the family home to start their new life at college or university, it’s natural for parents to experience mixed emotions. Part of you will feel proud that they are starting a new adventure and becoming adults but equally, it can be heart-wrenching to accept that you’re facing the end of an era as your children leave home.
Although, you may be feeling sad at the thought of your children moving on, it’s important to stay strong so that you can support your kids through this period of transition.
If your children have been a large part of your life, you may wonder how you will cope once they have moved out. Instead of focussing on the loss, look at the things you will gain such as more space, more free-time, and the opportunity to spend more time with your partner, other children or friends. If you’re worried that you’ll feel unfulfilled without your children at home, now could be the time to take up those hobbies you’ve always fancied trying.
The first few weeks are often the hardest as you adjust to life without your kids. Resist the temptation to phone or text your child every day unless you know for certain that they want you to. However, it’s natural for kids to feel homesick during their first year away from home, so follow their lead if they want to stay in touch on a more regular basis. Let them know that you’re there for support but encourage them to be independent.
For more advice for parents with children who are heading off to university, visit:www.thecompleteuniversityguide.co.uk/preparing-to-go/advice-for-parents/
