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Puberty seems to be this big scary thing that happens all at once, but, in reality, the process of coming into sexual health is a lot more gradual than all that. In fact, puberty starts when you don’t even realise it, beginning with the production of hormones in girls as young as eight or nine. Still, puberty tends to have more of an effect on your wellness once the outward signs start appearing, and it’s good to know what to expect. So, let’s go through all the different stages of puberty for girls.


 


1. The beginning of puberty: Between the ages of eight and 11 (although it may start later) you will go through the first stage of puberty. All the changes your body goes through will be internal, meaning that you may not notice you’re in this stage. However, just in case you were wondering, this is the stage in which your brain will create more hormones such as LH and FSH, and your ovaries will ovaries react and begin developing oestrogen-producing capabilities.


 


2. Stage Two: Generally speaking, you’ll go through the second stage of puberty when you are 11 or 12. This is the time in which your breasts will begin to grow or, as it is often referred to, “bud”. You know you have buds when you have some transitional breast tissue, and your areolas or nipples begin to darken and rise. While this usually happens before any other outwardly signs of adolescence, it’s not uncommon to see the beginnings of pubic hair before your breasts develop. During this stage of puberty, you are likely to have a growth spurt.


 


3. Stage Three: In the third stage of development, your breasts will continue to grow and your pubic hair will also carry on growing. You may find that hair begins to show up under your arms, and that your vagina grows in size. While you can pass through this stage anywhere between the ages of nine and 15, most girls tend to go through stage three of puberty around the age of 12 or 13. It is usually by this stage in development that you go through menarche, or your first period. Menarche tends to occur for seven out of 10 girls by stage three of puberty. Generally speaking, it takes less than three years for menstruation to occur after stage one of puberty, or once your body receives its signal from the brain to start making changes.


 


4. Stage Four: The fourth stage of puberty often occurs around ages 13 and 14 in girls, although it can happen earlier or later. During this stage, the accelerated growth of your height will usually slow down, and your level of body fat will reach a higher, adult level – usually tapering off at about 26% body fat. You’ll find that your pubic and underarm hair grows fuller and coarser. It’s common for girls to have their first periods by the age of 12 or 13 but, if this is the case, you might find that your periods are still irregular as your body is still balancing hormones and trying to find a rhythm.


 


5. The End of Puberty: Once you’ve reached stage five of puberty – usually between the ages of 14 and 19, you will have fully matured. By this time, it is likely that you will have achieved your maximum height, your breast will have reached their full size, and pubic hair will be fully developed. Likewise, your cardiovascular, skeletal and muscle systems will all be fully developed, and your periods and ovulation will occur regularly.

If you’re finding sex a little trickier now you’re pregnant, you’re not alone. Many women find this a difficult time to enjoy sex due to the sheer difficulty as you go through each trimester. However, the good news is that it’s not impossible. Here are some tips to help you through your pregnancy and ways to make it enjoyable and fun.


The First Trimester


During the first trimester, it’s not uncommon for sex to be the last thing you want to do. Morning sickness, hormones and exhaustion make this a less than sexy time, so it’s no surprise that you don’t really up to it. It’s also in our genes to lower the libido during pregnancy, as we’re hardwired to seek sex to perpetuate the genetic line – so when you’re pregnant, this automatically grinds to a halt. But sex doesn’t have to be intercourse or an orgasm to be fun. Tell your partner if you’re feeling ambivalent towards sex, and maybe they can offer up a well deserved massage instead. You can always keep an open mind too, as sex may not be the first thing you crave but it can be incredibly relaxing. While it may take you a while to get in the mood, if you happen to have sex then you’ll be glad you did. However, if you’re simply not feeling it, then maybe take a few weeks off from the bedtime activities. Most women find their hormones resurface after a few weeks anyway.


The Second Trimester


Weeks 14 to 28 are the blissful weeks where you really get to enjoy your pregnancy. You’ve no doubt told people now, you’re finally less tired and the morning sickness has subsided. You also get to enjoy your body’s new look, where your definite baby bump appears. Many women find themselves really relishing the fact that they don’t need to worry about their body image anymore and can focus just on being healthy and happy. It sends your confidence levels through the roof, and you’ll be pleased to know that your arousal levels also peak too. Be yourself during this time – if you want to try something new, use your vibrator or go back to the sex you used to enjoy before your got pregnant, go for it! Unless your GP has advised you not to have intercourse, there’s no harm in having sex exactly as you would have. The only risk here is UTIs which could show symptoms of cramps or painful urination – if you spot these, speak to your GP as soon as possible.


The Third Trimester


This is the less than blissful stage, where increased blood flow leads to swollen ankle and disrupted sleep from that big baby bump. You might not be feeling your most attractive, but don’t let that put you off sex – there’s still opportunities for enjoy yourself in the bedroom. Be creative, and remember the first trimester mantra where sex doesn’t have to mean intercourse or an orgasm. Spend time with your partner and just enjoy each other’s company, with a cuddle or a chat. Reassure your partner that sex isn’t going to cause harm to the baby – it’s a worry than many men have during this stage. And remember that this last trimester is a small stage in the grand scheme of things – there’ll be plenty of time to get back to a normal sex life once the baby arrives. This is the best time to simply enjoy the last stage of your pregnancy and be excited for your new arrival.