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The female orgasm is a part of sexual health and wellness that some people struggle with. However, while some women find that the ole stand-bys—penises, vaginas, fingers, and vibrators— struggle to help them get off, others have found themselves orgasming in their sleep, on the loo or even just by sneezing! Thanks to internet hive mind Reddit, which asked the candid forum “Ladies, what was the source of your most unconventional orgasm?”, we have the weird and wonderful answers as to anything and everything that can bring the vagina-bearing masses to orgasm. So, which of these oddities might do it for your sexual wellbeing?


 


1. Sleeping: Reddit user lemon_SQUISH detailed, ‘I was sleeping, and had a dream about riding a bike. In the dream, I was going over a bumpy part on the road, and had an orgasm that woke me up! It was really confusing.’ GoodToSeaYou added that her pillow was the surprising source of her first orgasm. She recalled, ‘I used to sleep with a pillow between my legs and I shifted…it felt good. So I kept grinding and had my first real orgasm when I was 12-13.’


 


2. Ab Crunches: According to thekeyboardhero, her abs weren’t the only thing that got a bit of exercise when doing crunches at the gym. ‘I was doing my crunches as usual and then all of a sudden BOOM,’ she explained. ‘I was 15, it was amazing.’


 


3. Toilet Attachment: notmyusername85 commented, ‘In much of India, Southeast Asia, and the Middle East, they have this mini-shower head like attachment to the toilet to clean yourself after. (I believe it is called a shataf) It is a much smaller and more concentrated stream of water than a normal shower head. Well, I was on my period and thought this was a good way to clean things up if you know what I mean…I used it on my clit and had and extremely fast and powerful orgasm.’


 


4. Restless Foot: For Ishityounotman, a caffeine buzz while sitting with her foot underneath her was all it took: ‘I had just drunk some coffee so I had lots of energy and therefore, my other foot started shaking. The movement jostled my foot tucked under me and, a few minutes later, voila! I should note that this took place in my math class in high school.’


 


5. Sneezing: ‘I sneezed four times and I came,’ said take_three. ‘I’ve heard that a sneeze is like an eighth of an orgasm, but I guess for me it’s a quarter.’


 


6. Jeans: _squirts_ asserted, ‘I feel like every girl has a pair of jean shorts that just rubs them the right way. That one pair of jorts you wear when you know you’re going to have a really bumpy ride. I’ve lost it going over rail road tracks before. It’s a surprise every time.’


 


7. Peeing: ‘When I get a UTI I have one every time pee,’ noted Libida. ‘The good kind too. The doctor had no idea what to make of it. She just told me I should feel lucky. I am probably the only person who doesn’t hate UTIs. But it is very bizarre.’


 


8. Giving birth: MtIggy clarified, ‘I wasn’t expecting it, but it happened while giving birth to my first. I had a home birth with no meds. It was different than a regular orgasm (ie. during sex or masturbation), but was undeniably an orgasm.’


 


9. Wedgies: nonamesleft1 detailed, ‘I gave a friend a wedgie once (in front of a few other friends), I was pulling that underwear so hard, I was pretty determined to actually get it to go over her head…..anyway, I must have pulled at least 10 times before she said she couldn’t take it anymore…..a few years later, she told me that actually came with the last tug.’

If you find out or even suspect that your partner is faking their orgasm, it is all too easy to take it as an insult to your sexual skills. This can affect your wellness and wellbeing by reducing your confidence and self-esteem, but before you go down this road, stop and think for a minute: could there be other reasons that your partner is faking their orgasm?


 


Orgasm faking is actually very common. Around 60 percent of women admit to having faked their orgasm at some point, either during oral sex or intercourse itself. A recent study shows that this tendency to fake an orgasm may be more to do with protecting their own fear of intimacy than protecting the ego of their partner.


 


The problem is not actually limited to just women, either, with research showing that around a quarter of all men have faked an orgasm at some stage.


 


The study looked at over 350 women aged between 18 and 32 who said that they faked orgasms. The research revealed that may of the women claimed to have faked it as they felt insecure about their own sexuality – i.e. they wanted to have an orgasm but it wasn’t happening, and they felt a certain pressure to be ‘functioning’. Some of them also said that they wanted to get it over with.


 


A small group of women said that they did it to actually enhance their own experience, as they felt that increased sexual arousal was gained by faking orgasm.


 


Some women simply felt that having an orgasm with a partner was too intimate an experience and they were not ready to allow themselves to be vulnerable in this way with a partner. Pretending to have an orgasm was the simplest way of keeping their partner at arm’s length, and avoid truly connecting with someone else on a sexual or emotional level.