Showing posts with label transgender. Show all posts
Showing posts with label transgender. Show all posts

How do you know that you’re a woman or a man? Does it just come down to the genitals you have, or did you work out your gender identity on more factors? Gender is not a cut-and-dry sexual health issue; it’s not just a case of penises for boys and vaginas for girls. Rather, there is a number of people for whom the body doesn’t match up with what’s going on in the mind, which is commonly known as gender identity disorder. Usually, struggles with gender identity begin in early childhood, but it can happen at any age. Gender identity disorder can be confusing, both for those whose wellbeing is affected by it, and their friends and family. So, let’s clear up the jargon.


 


1. Transexual: The community of people with gender identity disorder is commonly described as “transsexuals” by medical professionals. This term was coined Dr. Harry Benjamin, one of the pioneering doctors to research and work with gender identity disorders, using the research of Magnus Hirschfeld, of the Institute for Sexual Science, and Alfred Kinsey, of the Kinsey Institute, as his springboard.


 


2. Transgender: “Transgender” is used as a general, non-medical term to describe anyone whose gender identity is different from their physical sex at birth. If you’re transgender, you may wish to live as a different gender than the one you were born with, and may put your physical wellbeing at risk to do so. You may undergo gender reassignment surgery – or a sex change – to transform your body to reflect who you are underneath. However, you might not think your gender wellness merits these types of surgeries, and that’s OK too.


 


3. Transman or Transwoman: If you were born as a biological man but you identify as a woman, you are known as a transwoman, or transgender woman. A biologically born woman who identifies as a man is known as transman, or transgender man.


 


4. Third Gender: You might not want to refer to yourself as male or female, but rather find that your identity lies somewhere along a spectrum. This is sometimes referred to as “third gender”, but some people prefer no label at all.


 


5. Transvestite: You may have head someone who dresses in clothing more typically worn by the opposite sex labelled as a “cross-dresser,” “transvestite,” “drag queen” or “drag king”. However, the important distinction to make here is that these words don’t describe a person’s gender.


 


6. Transition: Instead of sticking to the sex you were assigned with at birth, you may decide to move towards the gender you perceive yourself to be. This shift is described as “transition”. Sex reassignment surgery may be part of your transition, but this isn’t always the case.


 


So how do you know if you have gender identity disorder? Diagnosis involves a consultation with a mental health professional, who performs sessions of psychotherapy and formulates a diagnosis. The DSM-IV breaks gender identity disorders into several types: Gender Identity Disorder of Childhood, Gender Identity Disorder of Adolescence or Adulthood and Gender Identity Disorder Not Otherwise Specified. Additionally, the ICD-10 provides five diagnosis types for GIDs: Transsexualism, Dual-role Transvestism, Gender Identity Disorder of Childhood, Other Gender Identity Disorders and Unspecified Gender Identity Disorder. The ICD-10 states that you are diagnosed as transsexual when you have a desire to live as and be accepted as a member of the opposite sex, along with the desire to transform your body with gender reassignment surgery or hormone therapy. Your gender identity needs to be present for at least two years, and the desire for gender change cannot be a symptom of another disorder or a chromosomal abnormality.

For most guys and girls, gender isn’t something that really gets questioned. Most guys feel perfectly normal being male, and most girls feel very natural being female. However, this isn’t true for everyone. Some people who are born male feel as though they should have been born female, and vice versa. These people are known as being “transgender” and it’s a serious wellness issue. Feeling like you’re living in the wrong body isn’t just a matter of sexual health, but really your mental and emotional wellbeing, as well as your relationships.


 


What society thinks of as being intrinsically male or female will play a role in how you feel about yourself. These expectations can include things like hairstyles, clothing, and jobs — and how people should act or behave. These aren’t often spoken rules but rather cultural norms which cause you to grow up believing men should act a certain way and women should act a certain way, and you don’t really give this much thought. These assumptions, however, don’t fit with your gender identity if you’re transgendered. Somehow, you know you feel “different” from the time you’re young, from puberty or even later in life. This mismatch may make you feel confused and emotionally conflicted.


 


As a result of this conflict, you may decide to physically change your body to match your gender identity. This can be done through surgery or taking hormones, but either route you take can be a long, complicated, and expensive process. For this reason, and others, some transgender people decide to keep things as they are, but dress as the opposite gender instead. Then there are those who decide to use a different name and pronouns that go with that name. If your birth name is Anthony, for example, you might ask people to call you Amanda and refer to you as a “she”. You might find you aren’t completely sure what you want to do yet. If you do decide to start living like someone of the opposite gender, it’s likely for certain issues to arise. Filling out forms that ask for your gender and choosing which public toilets to use can suddenly become very complicated decisions to make.


 


One thing to bear in mind is that being transgender is not the same thing as being gay. Rather, being transgender is about your gender identity, or the way you see yourself and the gender you most closely identify with. Being gay or lesbian, on the other hand, is about your sexual orientation, or the gender you are attracted to. Many gay and lesbian people are completely comfortable with their gender; they are simply a man who is attracted to other men, or a woman who is attracted to other women. However, because sexual orientation is a different thing from gender identity, a transgender person can be straight, gay, or bisexual — just like other people can.


 


Another important distinction to make is that dressing in clothes typically worn by the opposite sex does not automatically mean you are a transgender person. People who dress in clothes that are usually associated with a different gender are sometimes called cross-dressers or transvestites, and these people can make these clothing choices for a variety of reasons. Yes, this may be because of their gender identity, but people who dress as the opposite sex can also be making a clothing choice for fun, comfort, or as a way to express their personal style — not because they see themselves as the other gender. To find out more, look online for more information, as well as support groups for people going through the same things you are.

Transgender and Trans are terms that are used for people whose sexual identification is not in line with the traditional ideas of male and female. Your wellness and wellbeing can be greatly linked to how you view your own sexuality.


 


The term ‘trans’ embraces a variety of different types of sexuality, including transvestites. Transvestites are people who like to wear clothing of the opposite sex and occasionally pose as a member of the opposite sex, but they do not want to live full time as someone as the opposite sex. Trans can also mean people who feel that they are neither male nor female, or people who feel that they are both male and female. It can also encompass drag queens or kings and other people who don’t appear to show conventional characteristics of masculinity or femininity.


 


Transsexuals can also come under the category of ‘trans’. These are people who have a strong and ongoing to desire to live and to be accepted as a member of the opposite gender to the one that they were born with. Many of these transsexual people go through treatment such as gender realignment surgery and hormone therapy.


 


Trans people often have a complex idea of their own identity, and their idea of their gender may also change over time. They may start, for example, by simply cross dressing occasionally and then later on in life they may decide that they want to live full time as a member of the opposite sex. This process is called transitioning. Trans is also not always a popular term – many people who decide that they want to live full time as the opposite sex do not wish to be referred to as ‘trans’ but simply as a man or a woman.