Five Fantasies Your Partner Wants You to Make a Reality

If you think your partner doesn’t fantasise about sex as much as you do, think again; women have all kinds of saucy fantasies – some of which you’d never have even thought of. So if you want to give your partner’s sexual wellbeing a boost – as well as your own – why not suggest turning some of these top female fantasies into reality?

 

1. She Dominates You: According to Sexual Health and Wellness Writer Isabella Snow, ‘Women love a big strong man who can sweep them off their feet and carry them into the sunset – but you may be surprised to learn that one of the top female sex fantasies is to have that same big strong man begging for sexual release in the bedroom. The entire scenario revolves around you worshipping her body and begging for her attention. Why? She gets to be in control while enjoying total devotion from her man in the process.’

 

2. You Dominate Her: ‘The advent of the metrosexual is most commonly blamed for this top 10 female sex fantasy,’ says Snow. ‘It seems that, in many cases, modern, independent women actually prefer real men who aren’t afraid to embrace their testosterone. This woman fantasizes about you pinning her down and thrusting her thighs apart with your knee. She wants to feel your fingers snake through her hair and pull her head back; she wants to feel your teeth on her shoulder; she wants to be owned – if only while in the bedroom (after which, she’ll want a clear return to equality). This win-win female sex fantasy scenario allows her to fully indulge her femininity, while still espousing the merits of feminism.’

 

3. Teacher/Student: Snow comments, ‘You’ll be thrilled to know that the Britney Spears fantasy isn’t just for men: Women love the idea of dressing up like a schoolgirl and parading about for your viewing pleasure. Many would even like to take it a step further, playing the naughty tart who won’t stop teasing you until you pull her over your knee and give her the spanking she craves. That’s right: Loads and loads of grown women fantasise about getting a proper spanking from their man. A spanking from you is exciting for two reasons: Not only does this mild show of dominance hurt so good, but it also usually leads straight into hot, hot sex.’

 

4. Sex With A Stranger: ‘Most women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to act out this fantasy, but you’d better believe that most have thoroughly enjoyed thinking about it,’ Snow asserts. ‘No-strings-attached sex is something many women would love to experience, but most are dissuaded from it thanks to a lofty load of self-produced guilt. Nevertheless, her libido definitely gets fired up at the idea of a gorgeous male approaching her in a dark, smoky bar and taking her back to his room for a long, hot night of wild sex. This female sex fantasy appeals to her naughtiest side – the kinky one that rarely sees the light of day.’

 

5. Voyeurism: Snow notes, ‘If you think women don’t enjoy watching other people get it on, you’re completely mistaken. Your woman likes to watch for the same reasons as you do: It’s erotic, exhilarating and slightly taboo. She may fantasise about peeping through the neighbour’s bedroom window, spying on a kinky couple in the park or even catching a full-on orgy from the sidelines. Believe it when we tell you she enjoys “watching” just as much as you do; it allows to her be naughty without getting her hands dirty, so to speak.’

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Update Your Fitness Regime In The Winter With These Sports

During winter, it’s easy to say you’re giving up on your exercise regime and retreat to the warm. But you don’t need to give up your outdoor pursuits just because the sun’s gone into hiding – there are plenty of fun exercises that you can do during the winter to keep fit and have a good time. We all need to keep fit throughout the year, and that need doesn’t go away in the winter, so it’s advisable that you find something fun to do during those colder seasons that will maintain your fitness levels and make the most of the weather. You never know, you may even enjoy the winter more than summer now! Here’s a list of some great extreme winter sports that you should definitely consider when the colder months roll around.

Snowkiting

This is also referred to kite-boarding, and is a sport where snowboarding and kite-surfing are mixed. What makes it so enjoyable is that it doesn’t require the extreme terrain that so many sports need, so you can do this both up and down hills. Snowkiting can actually be really dangerous though, because you can reach great speeds. You also need the same physical strength that you’ll need for kite-surfing as well.

Ice Yachting

This is another summer hybrid that takes the excitement of a sailboat with the ice terrain to create a unique and enjoyable sport. This is becoming really popular in the United States, and you can now find racing competitions in the northern states as well as a number of ice yachting clubs cropping up.

Snow Kayaking

This is much like sledding, in the sense that all you need to do it is a slope, a little momentum and enough adrenaline to haul a kayak up the snow-covered hills. But once you get going, the kayak is actually a little more difficult to handle than when you’re in the water! Having the paddle to steer you will give you more control than in a standard sled, and once you’ve gathered some practice you can begin adding wax to the bottom of your kayak to build up faster speeds. Most ski resorts don’t allow this sport to take place, but you can pretty much practice anywhere where there is gravity and snow permits.

Ice Surfing

This is a real sport for adrenalin junkies where you’ll be reminded of wind surfing, but with ice blades instead of the open water. Because there is a difference in surface, this sport gives you the chance to build up faster speeds. For this reason, you’re at much more risk of injury – this is quite a dangerous sport. Before you let the wind sweep you away, remember that you don’t have brakes on this device. Try to also steer clear of thin ice – this sport comes with a fair few risks, and this is most definitely one to watch out for.

Ski Biking

This is one of the easiest extreme winter sports and consists of a bike frame with skis attached instead of wheels. With a low centre of gravity, it’s easy to sit and steer the bike as you move down the mountain. There’s a laid-back vibe to this sport, making it really fun. You may find that these bikes are hard to find or rent, but check with your local ski resort. You may be able to find a similar activity in your local area if this isn’t available.

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