Five Fantasies Your Partner Wants You to Make a Reality

If you think your partner doesn’t fantasise about sex as much as you do, think again; women have all kinds of saucy fantasies – some of which you’d never have even thought of. So if you want to give your partner’s sexual wellbeing a boost – as well as your own – why not suggest turning some of these top female fantasies into reality?

 

1. She Dominates You: According to Sexual Health and Wellness Writer Isabella Snow, ‘Women love a big strong man who can sweep them off their feet and carry them into the sunset – but you may be surprised to learn that one of the top female sex fantasies is to have that same big strong man begging for sexual release in the bedroom. The entire scenario revolves around you worshipping her body and begging for her attention. Why? She gets to be in control while enjoying total devotion from her man in the process.’

 

2. You Dominate Her: ‘The advent of the metrosexual is most commonly blamed for this top 10 female sex fantasy,’ says Snow. ‘It seems that, in many cases, modern, independent women actually prefer real men who aren’t afraid to embrace their testosterone. This woman fantasizes about you pinning her down and thrusting her thighs apart with your knee. She wants to feel your fingers snake through her hair and pull her head back; she wants to feel your teeth on her shoulder; she wants to be owned – if only while in the bedroom (after which, she’ll want a clear return to equality). This win-win female sex fantasy scenario allows her to fully indulge her femininity, while still espousing the merits of feminism.’

 

3. Teacher/Student: Snow comments, ‘You’ll be thrilled to know that the Britney Spears fantasy isn’t just for men: Women love the idea of dressing up like a schoolgirl and parading about for your viewing pleasure. Many would even like to take it a step further, playing the naughty tart who won’t stop teasing you until you pull her over your knee and give her the spanking she craves. That’s right: Loads and loads of grown women fantasise about getting a proper spanking from their man. A spanking from you is exciting for two reasons: Not only does this mild show of dominance hurt so good, but it also usually leads straight into hot, hot sex.’

 

4. Sex With A Stranger: ‘Most women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to act out this fantasy, but you’d better believe that most have thoroughly enjoyed thinking about it,’ Snow asserts. ‘No-strings-attached sex is something many women would love to experience, but most are dissuaded from it thanks to a lofty load of self-produced guilt. Nevertheless, her libido definitely gets fired up at the idea of a gorgeous male approaching her in a dark, smoky bar and taking her back to his room for a long, hot night of wild sex. This female sex fantasy appeals to her naughtiest side – the kinky one that rarely sees the light of day.’

 

5. Voyeurism: Snow notes, ‘If you think women don’t enjoy watching other people get it on, you’re completely mistaken. Your woman likes to watch for the same reasons as you do: It’s erotic, exhilarating and slightly taboo. She may fantasise about peeping through the neighbour’s bedroom window, spying on a kinky couple in the park or even catching a full-on orgy from the sidelines. Believe it when we tell you she enjoys “watching” just as much as you do; it allows to her be naughty without getting her hands dirty, so to speak.’

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Sexual Organs: What Happens Within The Body When They Develop?

The biology of sex is an intricate process that sees the body go through a number of changes and adaptations. There are many reasons why people have sex, from improving intimacy and for pleasure to the chance to conceive. Sex has a number of benefits, such as relieving stress and boosting immunity, burning calories and reducing pain. There are many expectant parents who look forward to the 20 week scan, the scan which tells them the gender of their baby, but what happens to get the baby there? This is more than just ‘the birds and the bees’ – what goes on within the body to create a baby? As an embryo develops, it develops what are known as Wolffian and Mullerian ducts; the Wolffian ducts turn into male sex organs and the Mullerian ducts develop into female sex organs. These organs depend on the presence of a Y chromosome. At week eight, the genitalia begin to develop as well. The external genitals continue to develop after the internal organs have formed, which means in men the testosterone produces a penis and a scrotum, and a lack of testosterone will mean a vagina and labia will form. Such organs develop throughout the pregnancy and will develop further in puberty later in life as well.

From an exterior angle, the male body has two visible sexual organs – the testes and the penis. In terms of primary sexual organs, the testicles are the organs which make sperm and produce testosterone. The testicles are housed outside of the body to keep the temperature cool so as not to damage the sperm. Sperm are often compared to tadpoles in appearance and they use their tails to travel, with the heads containing the genetic material. The penis is made from spongy tissue which expands and contracts, becoming stiff and engorged with blood when the man becomes aroused. This makes it easier for the penis to be inserted into the vagina during sex. Sperm gets mixed with the nutrient-rich fluids from the vesicle in the body to create a fluid known as semen which does three jobs. It provides a watery environment where sperm can swim while they are outside of the body, it provides nutrients such as vitamin C and fructose for the sperm, and it protects the cells by neutralising the acids in the female sexual tract.

 

The two ovaries in the female body are the counterpart to the male testes. They make the eggs and produce oestrogen, the female sex hormone. The oestrogen leads to the sexual characteristics in the female body, such as breast development, pubic hair, depositing fat in the hips and thighs, and widening the pelvis. Eggs develop in the ovaries and are released into the fallopian tube during ovulation – it’s during this time that fertilisation can take place if sperm can find itself within the body during sex. The fertilised egg can then move down to the womb where it develops. It’s made of spongy material that cushions the egg while it grows. The uterus stretches during pregnancy to hold the baby until it has reached full size and is ready to be born. At the base of the uterus is the cervix, which also widens during labour to allow the baby to come out. The vaginal walls can stretch to accommodate intercourse and childbirth, and the final two glands are found here, where they secrete fluids into the labial folds of skin.

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Ways women Can Make Achieving Orgasms Easier

While men can orgasm easily, it isn’t that easy for women. The female sex organs are difficult to navigate, making ‘coming’ a tricky situation for females. Unfortunately, the internet, films and books have done nothing to explain this fact to people – they make it seem as though orgasms are easily achieved as a woman, which can paint an inaccurate picture that leads to frustration and a lack of confidence when it doesn’t pan out in reality. It’s an embarrassing topic to bring up with other people, so many people don’t know how to overcome the problem – furthermore, as the female orgasm isn’t necessary in order to conceive, most doctors don’t place a lot of importance on the female orgasm. Currently, this is changing though, with many studies now looking into the value of the female climax. Compared to just a century ago, when experts believed women were incapable of having an orgasm, we now know that not only are women capable of orgasming but that they can also have multiple orgasms. Many young women are worried about their inability to climax, but for the majority of women this merely takes practice – this can be through masturbating or through sexual experiences which allow them to learn about their body, and what works for them sexually. In fact, studies show that 47 percent of people climax for the first time through masturbation. Furthermore, 20 percent climax for the first time through sexual intercourse, 20 percent through petting and one percent whilst sleeping! The average age for a woman’s first orgasm is 18, though many woman don’t achieve their first orgasm until their 40s.

 

Women in their late teens and 20s get frustrated about their inability to orgasm, but for most of these women it is merely a lack of experience. Masturbating, as previously mentioned, is the key way to learn about your body’s natural responses and rhythms which you can then teach to your partner so that they can help you achieve orgasm during sex. By the time you reach your 30s, 40s or 50s, you should be able to reach orgasm fairly easily – however, some women find their ability to climax changes depending on where they are in their menstrual cycle. Most women require clitoral stimulation in order to climax – there is a difference between a vaginal orgasm and a clitoral one. While some women can come through intercourse alone, the majority of women need some form of stimulation as well, whether that’s foreplay or being stimulated during intercourse. Many women complain that they can’t achieve simultaneous orgasms with their partner, but this is actually quite a rarity – it’s rare for partners to orgasm at the same time. If a man has a good control of his orgasm, he can usually maintain it until the woman is ready to climax as well.

 

A woman’s partner can help by being supportive of the problem and ensuring that they pay attention to their partners needs during sex. It’s important to remember that a woman needs stimulation during sex, so simply rushing into sex without this necessary part won’t help – you could try by taking things slowly and paying extra attention to foreplay so that they are fully aroused before intercourse begins. Oral sex can be a great way to stimulate the clitoris and increase intimacy between you, as can using sex toys if you find that stimulation during intercourse difficult. Some couples find it useful to have some sex sessions where there’s no emphasis on the climax – it can be a great way to learn about each other’s bodies and find out what you both like.

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Breast Cancer Could be Caused by The Male Sex Hormones

New research has shown that male sex hormones could be responsible for some cases of cancer-female/">breast cancer. Scientists in the United States say that they have now designed drugs that will block male sex hormones or androgens, in order to help fight cancer-female/">breast cancer. A team at the University of Colorado discovered that a lot of breast cancers have androgen receptors on the surface of them, and that male hormones such as testosterone help to fuel the growth of tumors.

Drugs that block these androgen receptors could offer a whole new way to fight the disease, improving wellness and wellbeing of cancer sufferers all over the world. Clinical trials are now planned in order to test this theory.

The team has found that as much as three quarters of cases of cancer-female/">breast cancer have these androgen receptor, and therefore might benefit from this type of therapy. The research for this is still at an early stage, but it does look promising, as this type of treatment is already used to tackle prostate cancer.

It is already known that some types of breast cancers’ growth is fueled by the female sex hormones, such as oestrogen and progesterone, and Tamoxifen is a widely-used cancer-female/">breast cancer medication, which blocks the oestrogen receptors and stops them from fueling the growth of tumors.

Scientists are now interested to see how this principle could work when blocking androgens from encouraging proteins to attach to the surface of cancer-female/">breast cancer. If this proved to be a success, the armourery against cancer-female/">breast cancer could be quite significant, improving the survival rates for the disease and improving the long term outcome for those who contract the disease. For example, patients who have a relapse whilst on Tamoxifen may have androgen receptors rather than female sex hormone receptors, and so would benefit from a slightly different type of treatment.

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Breast Cancer Could be Caused by The Male Sex Hormones

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