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Trying out a new sexual position can be just the boost that you and your partner need in the bedroom. Keeping things fresh and new between the sheets is also great for your emotional wellness and wellbeing, and maintains a sense of excitement in your relationship, stopping things from becoming stale.
Everyone knows the usual sexual positions – the missionary, girl on top and doggy style ones – but have you ever heard of the pretzel dip? This one encourages contact with the clitoris so can be a very pleasurable one indeed for women.
To try this one, women should lie on their right side, whilst the man kneels, straddling her right leg and curling her left leg around his left side. He should then enter from that position. The great thing about this position is that you get the deep penetration normally associated with doggy style whilst being able to look at one another.
Lots of women also find that doggy style hurts their backs, whereas with this one, they can lounge comfortably on the bed, and can also prompt their guy to get his hands involved in the action too.
Why not also try the flatiron? This one is meant to intensify vaginal pleasure and works by you lying face down on the bed with your hips slightly raised, and the man lying on top of you. In this position, a more snug fit is created, which makes your guy seem larger than he is.
In this position it is also possible for the man to thrust deep enough to touch your cervix, which can be pleasurable for some women. To make sure you protect your back, place a pillow under your lower abs whilst he is penetrating you, and move your hips from side to side to help intensify the action.
While communication is key to sexual health and wellness, sometimes its nice when you surprise your partner with something he likes – and he didn’t even have to ask for it. According to astrologist Kiki T, author of The Celestial Sexpot’s Handbook, your partner’s star sign may influence the kind of moves he’s into, so why not try out Kiki T’s suggestions for your partner’s sign, and surprise him with the best sex he never knew he wanted!
1. Aries: ‘Aries are known to be into fast, aggressive, and rough sex,’ says Kiki T. ‘Try a challenging rear entry position like “bootyful view.” It allows for deeper penetration, and he’ll be in control. Have him sit up on the bed so his legs are extended horizontally. Turn around and straddle him with your back facing him, then extend your legs back so they are behind him, relaxing your torso onto the bed between his feet.’
2. Taurus: ‘The Taurus man is into sensual, slow sex,’ Kiki T asserts. ‘Try missionary. He’ll be able to control the speed, and show his cariñoso side at the same time.’
3. Gemini: Kiki T comments, ‘We like to call these guys the master of the quickie. Try a position like standing up facing each other while he presses you again a wall.’
4. Cancer: ‘Cancers are indecisive and can have split personalities,’ Kiki T explains. ‘They’re either sensual or rough. Try girl on top so that you can take charge in case he decides to constantly switch it up on you.’
5. Leo: Kiki T notes, ‘Leos are very romantic and will take the extra mile to make things comfy for you. Think nice satin sheets and candles…Try a spooning position. It gives plenty of opportunity for him to get touchy-feely, since he’s el romantico.’
6. Virgo: ‘Virgos like to keep it really clean and they are usually the “givers,”’ Kiki T details. ‘Lie on your back, with your legs in the air forming a V-shape—this will give him the chance show off his, um, talents.’
7. Libra: Kiki T enthuses, ‘Libras are just straight on good at everything. He’s going to shine in any position, so try this advanced one: have him pick you up, wrap your legs around his waist, and trust us, he’ll take it from there.’
8. Scorpio: ‘How Scorpions have sex is pretty much how they communicate best with their lovers (i.e. the guy who solves all your arguments in bed,)’ says Kiki T. ‘Try a face to face position. Start off in doggy style, then rotate on your knees so you are facing each other. Looking into his eye is part of the sexual communication that’s intensely sexy to a Scorpio.’
9. Sagittarius: Kiki T points out, ‘These are the most spontaneous of the bunch. So if you’re into public sex, you’ve met your match. Try a standing up position where he enters you from behind while he holds one of your legs up, slightly bent at the knee. For that extra hot public sex-ish feel, tell him to press you up against the window for the thrill of possibly getting caught.’
10. Capricorn: ‘Capricorns are into S&M,’ Kiki T outlines. ‘Try doggy style, but keep your face down on a pillow. The hottest thing for him is to be 100% in control, and this position allows that. Just beware of possible spanking and dirty talking…in which you should probably lay down the law and what you’re not into before you do the deed.’
11. Aquarius: ‘These are the hombres that are into sex toys and props,’ asserts Kiki T. ‘While you’re on top of him, grab your vibrator and rub it on your clitoris. It gives you extra stimulation and it’s a maximum turn on for him.’
12. Pisces: Kiki T concludes, ‘Pisces are great at reading body language, so sex is almost always amazing since he knows exactly what you want and how you want it. They’re also really into role playing. Ride him reverse cowgirl—and for once, throw in the role playing so this position is finally really true to its name.’
For centuries, we’ve used people’s sexual practices as a way of determining their character. Sexuality and masculinity have been connected for years, and there’s no escaping that. But it’s not just having sex that counts, but also how we have sex. Amongst men, there is a lot of variety in how the male gender prefers sex – slow, rough, fast, soft…the list goes on. Regardless of their sexual preference, the way we have sex says more about us than we think; it determines how men are seen and how they see themselves. Sex is an important aspect of any relationship, whether that’s a lasting or fleeting one. And the roles we play within those relationships say a lot about our character. Here is a guide to what sexual positions really mean for men, and what they say about the roles they play within the their own relationships.
Doggy Style
For many people, this preference comes from a real disdain for women and the chance to dominate at any turn. It’s commonly associated with a deep insecurity from many rejections when you were younger, leading to take the opportunity to demean women when you get the chance. Naturally, this isn’t everyone’s view of doggy style, but it’s commonly thought (particularly by women) that there’s little intimacy and romance associated with this sexual position.
Missionary
Men who like missionary sex like to play is safe and don’t like to take too many chances. It’s a classic position that’s consistent, reliable and enables you to play by the rules. It doesn’t require creativity or spontaneity and that is why you like it – you know what to expect. That said, it’s a popular position as well.
The Cowgirl
Men who like the Cowgirl enjoy it because it’s easy – for them. They like that they can lie back and enjoy the ride, quite literally. It’s the easy choice for men that prefer to have things handed to them on a plate and reap the rewards of someone else’s effort. There is a certain ‘exoticism’ with this position, which makes it a fun addition to relationships for men.
The Spoon
Men who like spooning really value a relationship; for them, being part of a couple is incredibly important. There’s something about the spoon position that evokes the concept of romance and coupledom – it’s synonymous with the ultimate level of comfort and security in a relationship. Men who crave this level of intimacy are craving security in their relationship, and the romance that goes with that. Considered something of a triumph amongst men, it’s rare for men to be openly in favour of this sexual position as it’s considered to be something women crave more than men.
The Cat
A tantric sex move, this is one for those who really take sex seriously. Craving not just a physical orgasm but a spiritual one as well, men who take sex to another level are looking to really connect with their partner. Tantric sex is considered to be the ultimate in sexual experience, giving a heightened orgasm but it’s a difficult skill to learn. So, by the very nature, men who understand and practice tantric sex take an in-depth interest in the very practice of sex. These type of men are likely to be super confident in bed and know their way around the body, so they’ll know what they’re doing in the bedroom.
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